A podcast by David Watts

Rebuilding a life —
out loud.

Honest conversations about health, mindset and resilience — from a host living with a rare autoimmune disease and thirty years spent studying how people actually change. Science and NLP. Zero woo.

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Episodes in the archive
30+
Years studying change
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Unreasonably stubborn host
David Watts, host of Watts Involved

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David Watts

On air — latest episode 29 September 2026 · 11 min

How to Build Rapport With Anyone (Without Being Fake)

Rapport isn't charisma and it isn't a parlour trick — it's what happens when someone's threat-detection system stands down. David Watts takes the mechanism apart: why deliberate mimicry backfires, what NLP calls pacin…

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Why this show exists

At four years old, a plastic tube tore through my soft palate. The surgeons told my parents I might never speak. My gran disagreed — and coached me, patiently, every single day, until the doctors were wrong. I've been obsessed with what words can rebuild ever since.

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Cracking The Influence Code

Mastering advanced communication and negotiation with NLP, neuroscience and behavioural economics — thirty years of practice in one book.

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The body sets the terms. The mind negotiates.